The Third and Final Continent
By: Jhumpa Lahiri
I
was profoundly interested in the loss of tradition that occurred throughout
this story. The narrator is explains his journey from India to North London and
then to America. It amazes me how he only changed his Indian traditions once he
arrived to America. The narrator is able to adapt so well to America because of
his keen sense of observing patterns throughout the area. Not only that, but he
also reads in order to learn about American customs.
In
North London, the narrator stayed committed to his Indian customs. I believe
this may have been because he was living with other Bengali bachelors and that
is all they seemed to have known. One custom that seemed to stand out was how
they ate egg curry with their hands. Another custom that continued in North
England was how marriages were still being arranged considering the long
distance between North England and Calcutta.
I
found it interesting how the narrator considers moving to America because of a
job opportunity. This goes back to the idea of fulfilling the life of the
“American Dream.” The main concern the narrative had was to ensure that the job
was “generous enough to support a wife.” Having a wife was out of his control
and since this was an arranged marriage, he had no choice but to marry this
woman and take care of her.
The
narrator quickly learns about the American lifestyle by reading The Student Guide to North America. This
tool helped the narrator learn about American ways and what certain phrases
meant. This helped him maneuver his way into the new country. One of the
advices that I found interesting from this guidebook was: “The pace of life in
North America is different from Britain as you will soon discover. Everybody
feels he must get to the top.” I felt as though he quickly caught on to this
idea. For example, he wanted to show up on time for his ‘interview’ for the
apartment with Mrs. Croft. Not only that, but he made sure he wore a coat and
tie and even mentions his fresh breath of Listerine. He definitely made sure he
had a lasting impression on Mrs. Croft for the apartment. I feel as though in
America, everyone is always fighting for one certain position- and people would
do anything in the world to get it.
I
also noticed how a Catholic-based religion seemed to be quite important from
the minute the narrator got on the plane. Once the pilot announced the news of
the man landing on the moon, a passenger hollered “God Bless America” and the
narrator noticed a woman praying. The fact that the narrator noticed these acts
shows that he may have felt like an outcast since he was from India. He also
mentions “a small wooden cross on one wall” in the YMCA room. This religion
seems to be everywhere and seems to help with an acceptance of breaking some of
his religious views. For example, the narrator first shows complete worry in
making sure Mala does not encounter an issue with her sari like the woman he
witnessed with the dog. However, in a following scene, he tells her, “There is
no need to cover your head. I don’t mind. It doesn’t matter here.” This showed
the transition into the “American” side of him.
He
also states all the things he was now no longer “used to.” He begins to learn
that while living in Mrs. Croft’s building, he had adapted into a new routine,
a new tradition. Once Mala came, he had to get used to an entirely new culture,
a culture in which he had lost because he was already “Americanized.” He
states, “Unlike Mala, I was used to it all by then: used to cornflakes and
milk, Helen’s visits, used to sitting on the bench with Mrs. Croft. The only
thing I was not used to was Mala.”
I
found it interesting how he was not originally happy with Mala until Mrs. Croft
meets her. It seemed as though he needed Mrs. Croft’s approval of her in order
for him to give her a chance. Mrs. Croft states, “She is a perfect lady!” It
was through Mrs. Croft that finally a connection was then made between Mala and
the narrator.
Overall,
this story showed that routines could form by sticking to the pattern faithfully.
Although both the narrator and Mala had been reluctant to a new lifestyle, they
finally put effort into working together towards a new routine and it ended up
working out. The narrator was able to move from India to North England to
America and had to adjust to a different routine each time. Eventually, they
both lived based off the “American routine” where “Mala no longer drapes the
end of her sari over her head, or weeps at night for her parents.” Although
they were able to live an “American lifestyle,” they made sure the culture was
not completely lost with their son. The narrator explains how once in a while
they bring their son back home to Cambridge, “so that he can eat rice with us
with his hands, and speak in Bengali.”
Overall,
one tradition that never died with the narrator was how he always remembered
the street that he first lived when he moved to America. He first took Mala
there and he made it his own routine to drive by Massachusetts Avenue and think
about his first experiences in America and ponder on how far he has come since.
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